Thanks For Karyn

This blog is dedicated to our dear friend Karyn. Let it serve as an online community center to help support her fight against cancer. We love you Karyn!

Saturday, February 04, 2006

An important message from Julian

Hi all,
Julian is floored by the amazing support they are receiving. He does have a specific request, however, that we send all of our messages and thoughts to Karyn via mail, and/or the blog. Please do not call her cell phone. Here's why:

Karyn loves all of you. Karyn is such a social gal. Karyn has a hard time saying no and when she hears people are asking to see her it's very difficult for her. She's got the "I want them to come, but I'm so wiped out, but I feel bad turning my dear friends away" syndrome. Julian says "the time will come when everyone can see her and it's going to come so fast."

Let's show them how much we love them both by giving them, but especially Karyn, the quiet they need.

I know this is hard to hear. Who am I to tell you what to do? I apologize if this note causes anyone pain, frustration or even guilt. I certainly understand and have felt them all myself. Regarding guilt anyone might feel about past calls, etc...forget it. How were you to know? Most of us don't have any experience dealing with something like this...most of us have no idea what it's like, physically, for Karyn. We're all learning together how to navigate through this maze, no one has made a mistake. We're all learning how to give Karyn and Julian exactly what they need. Today they've told us what they need. Today is a new lesson. Maybe tomorrow there will be more.

Hang in there.

0 Comments:

Post a Comment

Links to this post:

Create a Link

<< Home